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Quotes about Couple

Thinking about affection, expectations and the everyday work of sharing life with a partner.

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A couple can share projects without becoming each other’s only source of company, support, or direction. Choosing each other also means respecting each person’s own life.

A couple can share projects without becoming each other’s only source of company, support, or direction. Choosing each other also means respecting each person’s own life.

Caring for someone does not mean deciding for them. It also means saying what you feel and respecting the answer you receive.

Caring for someone does not mean deciding for them. It also means saying what you feel and respecting the answer you receive.

Unconditional love does not mean accepting any treatment. A relationship also needs respect, agreements, and boundaries.

Unconditional love does not mean accepting any treatment. A relationship also needs respect, agreements, and boundaries.

Starting a relationship only to avoid loneliness can lead you to accept treatment you do not want. Get to know the person before deciding what place they will have in your life.

Starting a relationship only to avoid loneliness can lead you to accept treatment you do not want. Get to know the person before deciding what place they will have in your life.

Telling the truth respectfully also protects a relationship. Talk about the specific behavior, listen to the response, and look for an agreement both people can keep.

Telling the truth respectfully also protects a relationship. Talk about the specific behavior, listen to the response, and look for an agreement both people can keep.

A partner does not have to solve all your problems. They can stay with you, listen, and work with you while both people remain responsible for their own lives.

A partner does not have to solve all your problems. They can stay with you, listen, and work with you while both people remain responsible for their own lives.

Affection should not make you guess every day whether you also matter to the other person.

Affection should not make you guess every day whether you also matter to the other person.

To understand a relationship, look at the pattern, not the promise that appears after every problem.

To understand a relationship, look at the pattern, not the promise that appears after every problem.

A relationship is also cared for in ordinary moments: talking, walking together, or sharing silence. Those simple moments help affection last.

A relationship is also cared for in ordinary moments: talking, walking together, or sharing silence. Those simple moments help affection last.

A respectful relationship leaves room for two people to have different interests. Sharing a life does not require giving up everything each person enjoys separately.

A respectful relationship leaves room for two people to have different interests. Sharing a life does not require giving up everything each person enjoys separately.

A relationship needs to keep some of the care shown at the beginning. Asking about the day, listening, and making time together remain important later on.

A relationship needs to keep some of the care shown at the beginning. Asking about the day, listening, and making time together remain important later on.

A lasting relationship is built through repeated decisions: caring for the bond, resolving disagreements, and preserving each person’s own space.

A lasting relationship is built through repeated decisions: caring for the bond, resolving disagreements, and preserving each person’s own space.

Living together well requires knowing the other person, discussing differences, and keeping agreements. A good relationship does not arrive complete; two people build it.

Living together well requires knowing the other person, discussing differences, and keeping agreements. A good relationship does not arrive complete; two people build it.

A relationship is not sustained only because two people love each other. It is also built by enjoying time together and working through problems without attacking each other.

A relationship is not sustained only because two people love each other. It is also built by enjoying time together and working through problems without attacking each other.

A partner does not have to create all your happiness. They should add respect, shared time, and calm to the life you are already building.

A partner does not have to create all your happiness. They should add respect, shared time, and calm to the life you are already building.

Being with someone who does not respect you can feel lonelier than being single. Being together makes sense when care is present too.

Being with someone who does not respect you can feel lonelier than being single. Being together makes sense when care is present too.